Good Looking Guys
Just a recent hot topic between my friends.
We were wondering: why good looking guys can't get a decent girlfriend.
Explaination: every decent girl out there ultimately desires a guy whom can provide security - both emotional and physical security. However, good looking guys will also be idolised by the female community - not very good for emotional security. Also - not to be sexist: yes, maybe the good looking guys is generally a playboy and use his good looks to charm his way in and out of girls.
Case study: I used to know a distant friend, my junior from Methodist College. She was the most popular and most sought after girl in school. She was sexy, pretty, had sharp features, had all the curves... In the right places. It was as if she was a giant magnet for courting guys. However, she ended up dating a decent average Joe. When I say average Joe I mean he doesn't come close in anyway, compared to her. Reason? She was sick of all the good looking but hollow charmers so she settles with Mr. average Joe. Whether she really loves him? I don't know.
Conclusion: a good looking guy will usually have a naughty girlfriend. However, a DECENT good looking guy: will end up with no one. Of course, this is open for discussion. =P
We were wondering: why good looking guys can't get a decent girlfriend.
Explaination: every decent girl out there ultimately desires a guy whom can provide security - both emotional and physical security. However, good looking guys will also be idolised by the female community - not very good for emotional security. Also - not to be sexist: yes, maybe the good looking guys is generally a playboy and use his good looks to charm his way in and out of girls.
Case study: I used to know a distant friend, my junior from Methodist College. She was the most popular and most sought after girl in school. She was sexy, pretty, had sharp features, had all the curves... In the right places. It was as if she was a giant magnet for courting guys. However, she ended up dating a decent average Joe. When I say average Joe I mean he doesn't come close in anyway, compared to her. Reason? She was sick of all the good looking but hollow charmers so she settles with Mr. average Joe. Whether she really loves him? I don't know.
Conclusion: a good looking guy will usually have a naughty girlfriend. However, a DECENT good looking guy: will end up with no one. Of course, this is open for discussion. =P
[Johnny: "Are we decent guys?" Orlando: "I don't know, do we have naughty girlfriends?"]
8 Comments:
wendy: OR... if they r both good looking couples - they don't last: brad & jennifer is over, posh n becks is on da way too... =(
hehe! i used to have this discussion with my friends with the same conclusion like yours, and i'll be asked to zip up my mouth because i'm putting this issue in a very literate way.hehe!
张丛辉!!! all i can say is that you are so perasan!!! OMG... =P
huiling
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vss3t: well, i aint gonna sue u. =P
hui ling: so there u r! haven heard frm u in a while. perasan wat? i said it was a discussion between my friends. 曾慧玲! still think da world only revolves around me! OMG... =P
funny i should come across ur blog when i was having this thought on the way to uni!?! Is that what people are up to these days? (so sad... nothing better to do.... I bury my head in shame... anyways) So i was on the bus and yes, people to check each other out and I cudn't be any sloppier today. Just one of those 'grab whatever n go' days and WHAAAM! u see the most gorgeous guys! Of course, I had my piece of eye candy but I cannot help but feel super small. OF COURSE HE DIDN'T C ME!
To your point: it's because good looking guys pay NO attention at girls who are less attractive because they believe they should be better off with their calibre; and for girls who make an effort in the mornings, come on... it's either an occasion, meeting up with someone special or u're simply out to flirt.
My bizzarre conclusion? Good looking couples are attracted to each others good looks. Natural Law. Pretty looking girls who are born pretty and have a good heart will see into people's heart and will find a true love that matches her best (as she has the quality to pick n mix)
I also know of another theory: that if one is better looking than another, the other will feel extremely inferior and the relationship will crumble... ooooo.... but who is to judge beauty eh? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
hehe. i wouldn't know. for one, never had the oppurtunity to be a good looking guy, so i can't really tell.
sister: so technically there's no good looking or bad looking people? its all how people think you look?
quick silver lining: aiya... give give opinion only mar...
Its not so much good looks that count methinks. Its more charisma and personality. If you are a whiney insecure "Does my hair look good like this?-constantly-checking-mirrors" type guy no girl will want you even if you're Brad-esque. Confidence from an average joe is far more appealing.
(Of course you could have confounded variables in that good looking chaps often are more confident cos of their looks). Trust me on this...loads of the time REALLY UGLY-ASSED guys get it if they're confident nuff
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