Friday, November 24, 2006

Hello Motto

Not Motorola, my love motto.

When people ask me, why do you always put so much heart and effort into your relationships? I always answer this, “如果爱一个人不爱得深, 感情100%的投入。。。 那爱一个人就没有意思了。。。 虽然爱得深就伤得深, 可是这样子才不会后悔。。。” This translate as, "if you don't put all your eggs in one basket and love someone 100% with all your heart, then there is no reason to love at all. Although loving deeply means you'll get hurt even deeper, but then you'll never regret it."

I think my heart will always stay this way. Friends have tried to change me, but this is how it is and will stay this way forever. When it comes to love, there is no compromise. I want to have it all; or not have it at all.

Call me selfish or ignorant, I know I'm not a perfect human being, we all have flaws. I'm definately not saying I've got this love & relationship business all figured out. But then, I know my rules in this game of love, and I'm going to stick to what I believe in. Some people will despise me, some will love me. Take it or leave it.

Now, back to working on my presentation due next Friday. Since my one and only presentation partner's been admitted to hospital for double kidney failure (if he doesn't get a donor soon he will die - God bless him), I've been juggling 2 person's work.

So, if you'll excuse me... I've got some work to attend to. Ciao!

8 Comments:

Blogger -aLLYSa- said...

敢爱敢恨。。赞!很心赏你对爱情的那份坚持。。要爱,就全心全意的去爱。我想,我再没有你那份勇气了。因为我太害怕再次被伤害。。我的心承受不起了。。有时候,一个人也蛮好的。至少,没有人会伤害你。

p/s: 也许有些人会觉得 ‘笑一笑’ 只不过是逃避的办法, 但对一个永远没法解决的问题,哪。。是唯一可以做到的。。。

November 24, 2006 6:01 AM  
Blogger Chong Chung Fui said...

allysa: i wasnt born with this attitude towards love, i learned frm past mistakes n experiences. i really do understand how u feel bout getting hurt again, but think of it this way... if u nvr got hurt, how would u learn to appreciate the true meaning of love? "only when you've lost it, then u'll know how precious it is..." another motto of mine. afraidof getting hurt will nvr be an excuse i use 2 shy away frm love anymore.

im not saying smiling is running away, but smiling will not solve all problems...

November 24, 2006 11:12 AM  
Blogger vss3t said...

eh, u still owe me someone's pic lah..

November 25, 2006 7:42 PM  
Blogger Chong Chung Fui said...

siapa punya pic?

November 25, 2006 9:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ehhh so romantic lah u...

ure a dying breed...=P

quick question, you ever followed some of the old taiwanese series? there was one in 1996 called mei hua lao which was like THE saddest series ever...chinese version of romeo and juliet...but 10 times worse...

December 04, 2006 2:36 PM  
Blogger Chong Chung Fui said...

christina: yeah, dying breed indeed.

nah, wats so romantic about dat show?

December 04, 2006 3:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

well just thought it suited ure mood for some reason...sad coz they can never be together in this lifetime...as the usual taiwanese/love tragedies go...cliche but still strikes a chord everytime...

I know everyone says this but i do think u'll find someone who can appreciate you for who you are one day....just dnt be so hard up on ureself...

December 07, 2006 10:34 AM  
Blogger Chong Chung Fui said...

christina: im not being hard on myself... these people r being hard on me... hahaha...

December 07, 2006 12:25 PM  

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