A Valuable Lesson
Today, I've learnt a very terribly painful lesson. I've learnt:
1) NEVER say the wrong thing at the wrong time. Tiredness is not an excuse.
2) Insensativity is a poisonous lil' sin in disguise.
3) NEVER say sorry if you're not sure what you're apologising for, or risk having undesired opposite effects.
4) Loving and protecting is 2 totally different things.
5) I've truly comprehend and felt when Shakespeare says, "heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, nor hell a fury like a woman scorned." AMEN.
This momentary stumble nearly cost me the most precious thing in my life.
13 Comments:
chung fui, one word - GAMBATEI!!!!
U'll manage all these through.
vss3t: we work our differences off... it was my mistake for overlookng certain things, but its all a learning process, no? ^^
yes!
vss3t: AMEN! ^^
Heh. I get really angry when He apologizes blindly too. Its like, just to shut me up -_-
valz: well, when i apologise, i might not know wat happened, but i juz want 2 take da first step towards reconcilation. not dat im trying 2 juz shut someone up... -_-"
but thats how we feel somtimes :P
valz: of course, of course... but imagine if both sides lost their temper n not willing 2 give in... its going to be much worse no?
What do you mean by loving and protecting is not the same? =(
terry: well, loving someone and knowing how to protect them frm harm is very different... just coz ur loving someone doesnt mean ur automatically protecting them... comprende? ^^
then if ur protecting someone, does that mean that u love them? ><;;
Of course someone has to give in(namely the bfs) but not by apologizing without knowing whats wrong loh.
terry: not neccessary as well, it is a sign dat u love them, but that might not be ur intitial intentions...
valz: i din't apologise for something i dint know wat was wrong lar, it was more like: i apologise for arguing and making this as bad as they are now; also a sign dat im willing to work things out...
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