Friday, April 14, 2006

Lil' Things in Life

Not that I've realised this recently, but: I've always been a big supporter of the lil' things in life. For example, I got so excited when I bought a new 4 in 1 blender that day, and was busy slicing and dicing random edible stuff at 4am in the morning.

[My new Braun 4 in 1 blender - complete with a hand motor, masher, wisk, ice crusher and 2 different size blending container]

I've always knew - it's the lil' things in life that really matter. Big chunks of happy things are great, but when they go... They really do all disappear all in one go. Personally, I don't think I deserve a few of those big magical disappearing tricks, but this world ain't too fair anyway. Plus things don't always go as I want them to be. I NEVER blame anything or anyone for these - I just think it's God's will... Or perhaps an inevitable truth.

Hence I really do enjoy every bit of my life, though I might not show it. When I drink a cup of coffee - I make sure it's a piping hot caffe latte with extra shot from ground Brazillian or Costa Rican coffee beans blended to at least 80% of its flavour, served with steamed low fat soya milk with covers no more than 10% of the top of my cup. When I eat a piece of steak - I make sure it's Tesco's finest quality beef fillet grilled to perfection, served with peppercorn cream sauce together with grilled rosemary and buttered potato chunks with a healthy portion of mixed garden salad of cherry tomatoes and lettuce served with a healthy topping of french dressing... Oh, and a glass of apple juice too. Someone remind me later to post up my recipe for a nice steak. =P

Of course, life is not all just about food. For the past week, I have been spending a few late nights with my sister doing laundry and playing Need For Speed Most Wanted (it's a racing car game for those gaming illiterate people) on the Ps2. I really cherrish those lil' moments. That's how we build up our memories.

I think to a certain degree, I have become timid. I'm not afraid of giving big, but I'm afraid of losing big. I no longer desire to take big leaps in life or be daring. But I guess that's the price to pay for turning into a coward. Until the day I decide to pick up my courage once again, I would just stay here and be happy with the lil' things in life: giving small, receiving small.

17 Comments:

Blogger Li-Ann said...

chungy... you should go on tv and advertise for all these things... i can just picture you saying [My new Braun 4 in 1 blender - complete with a hand motor, masher, wisk, ice crusher and 2 different size blending container...the perfect blender of all time!


incidentally everyone's a coward. including yours truly. but its wonderful to happy with small things..

April 15, 2006 12:05 AM  
Blogger Chong Chung Fui said...

wendy: then should start be happy wif da lil' things in life i guess. =)

li ann: "it dices, it slices... intorducin da new Braun 4 in 1 blender! watch how fast it dices garlic... in a matter of seconds! dirty? NO WORRIES... juz give it a rinse... n ur ready to go! havin a hard time wif carrots? NO PROBLEM! the Braun 4 in 1 blender dices even da hardest fruits n vegetable, so u can hav da tastiest fruit juice dat u've always wanted. now selling for only 45 pounds, promotion ends next month... batteries sold seperately." Does dat sound good? =P

April 15, 2006 4:09 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

HI,

Wow that was a wonderful thought... its the small things that sometimes bring major happiness, coz you never expect those happy moments.. as for happiness from a mega occasion id concerned... it's anticipation spoils the fun sometimes...

Keep Smiling dude

Sumit

April 15, 2006 5:08 AM  
Blogger Chong Chung Fui said...

sumit: dat is very true. u take care too! =)

April 15, 2006 11:00 AM  
Blogger Chong Chung Fui said...

wendy: but dun forget when da time comes 2 build up courage 2 make a move on da big stuff... =P

April 16, 2006 12:31 AM  
Blogger justanothertragedy said...

Can I stay with u in Manchester? :D

April 18, 2006 2:30 PM  
Blogger Chong Chung Fui said...

coz of me or da mosquito free environment? =P

April 18, 2006 2:48 PM  
Blogger justanothertragedy said...

Both? Hahaha

April 19, 2006 2:26 PM  
Blogger Chong Chung Fui said...

just another tragedy: hahaha... excuse moi madamme, r u flirtin wif moi? =P

April 19, 2006 8:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

poetic u know...but 4 am?! lol bit too enthusiastic?

Its good to appreciate the small things, coz they're the ones ull miss most..

April 27, 2006 3:42 PM  
Blogger Chong Chung Fui said...

christina: i do miss da small things... but problem is... my big things in life r made up of lil' things too... n 2 lose a big thing... its like losing many many lil' things...

April 27, 2006 4:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hmm trueeee....but I still believe the small things in life are the best, like a crazy car ride with friends, some random convo that you have on one friday of some month of some year...something that someone says which is so funny every1 can't stop laughing....so u know, learn to be happy with what you have at the end of the day I guess....

April 28, 2006 4:29 PM  
Blogger Chong Chung Fui said...

christina: true true, however... if we juz sit here n enjoy those lil' things in life - one will nvr get 2 achieve da greater things in life, nvr move on. one will be stagnant n nvr want more out of their life. for now, stagnant is good, but later in life, one should ask 4 more... somethin like dat... =P

April 29, 2006 12:30 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

haha okok so u want change i guess...dats always good...

April 29, 2006 5:05 PM  
Blogger Chong Chung Fui said...

christina: no... not really change... but i juz dun think a person should be juz happy 4 where they r... they should always believe theres somewhere further they can acheive... in a sensible way of course...

April 30, 2006 3:31 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

for sure, but sometimes dnt u think ppl should be satisfied with what they have at that particular pt. in time? Like sometimes you might try to acheive more things but end up losing more than u started off with...

April 30, 2006 11:26 AM  
Blogger Chong Chung Fui said...

christina: maybe satisfied for a moment, but not stay happy stayin dat way 4 long. life is all bout risk takin, n u wont know until u try, or u'll regret it.

April 30, 2006 2:23 PM  

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